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the 5 love languages
Friday, April 15, 2011 @ 12:05 PM


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i am sure many of you would have heard of the 5 love languages in the world.

for a short summary, these are the 5 (in no specific order),

1) Words of Affirmation
2) Quality Time
3) Receiving Gifts
4) Acts of Service
5) Physical Touch

well, i have known about this 5 love languages since i was really young. like 13 years old or 14 years old? i rmb PK spent a few weeks sermon touching on each and everyone of it. its one of the most interesting sermon i enjoyed cos it really made me get to know myself better.

i rmb i had this ranking of preferences for the above 5 love languages.

when i was 14 years old - 17 years old, my ranking was:

1) Words of Affirmation
words can make/break me cos i really believe in everything that one person say. i wouldnt doubt anyone. i simply trusted everyone ard me. so my family and friends opinions matter alot to me. i always believe family/friends sometimes, is able to see a clearer picture in my life better then myself.

2) Quality Time
if you know me, i kinda can chatter away with almost everyone and anyone. i heart quality time! iactually dont really fancy group outings. i prefer 1 on 1 outings! cos its where undivided attention is given. and i dont like to text when i am outside with friends.

3) Receiving Gifts
who doesnt love gifts? where your treasure is, there your heart will be :) i strongly believe in this.

4) Acts of Service
i aint the kind of girl to get a guy to carry my bag (unless my bag is boyish looking enough) i will be really touch if you go the extra mile for me. like picking me up everywhere i go!

5) Physical Touch
this is kinda my last. aint the clingy kinda girl. but i do appreciate still! just not as much.

anyway, thats like 4-5 years ago?

recently, i realized, love languages can actually change in ranking. maybe its our perception of life has changed, we all grow up, gotten hurt, betrayed, abused. such nonsense in life do happen. and much as we all have moved on, memories will still remain. those hurts will always leave behind a imprint, like how you step on wet cement. we all became a little more protective, more guarded, more judgmental based on our own experience.

its just amazing how i see myself evolved and how ppl ard change too. for the better or for the worst? i guess we are our best judge. its kinda scary isnt it. i dont know.. to me it is.. is like the girl that you stare in the mirror is no longer the same, though it has the same heart beating within that rib cage. just weird. sometimes i do ask myself, so which is the real tan yan bing sheronica? that girl or this girl now? just confusing.

at this point of time, i know kelly chin will most likely to tell me to stop thinking too much. hahahas.

so well, like i was saying, now that i am older (yes, 21 this year *GASPS*) i have changed, and so do my preferences in love languages. now, heres the ranking,

1 & 2) Words of Affirmation / Acts of Service
its kinda a tie between acts of service and words of affirmation.

Actions speaks louder than words isnt it? instead of saying "i love you" why dont you just show me through actions, that you truly love me? time to walk the walk. but i still need my dosage of affirming words :)

3) Receiving Gifts
obviously, chanel pls. hahas kidding.

well, like i said, where your treasure is, there your heart will be.

you can give without loving, but cant love without giving.

i believe in expensive gifts, not because i am materialistic but, i know if you are willing to part with that kind of money, i have a better standing in your heart than money is! of course, to each one his best luh. not everyone need to get me a chanel luh. if i know that watch you bought for me would need you to save up 1 month for it, it will be worth more than a chanel.

4) Quality Time
i still do enjoy quality time k! you need time to pass me my presents what. hahahahs kidding.


5) Physical Touch
i am still that the touchy kinda girl. i dont need you to kiss me whenever we are on an escalator. hahahahs.


nv have i expected my love language to change. i wonder how i will be like 5-10 years down the road. maybe physical touch will be my top choice! hahahs